"That is a good point," Dark had to agree. "I am an adult and it is still difficult to find a balance between family, friends, work, and Daizi. And it is strange now, because she is both family and a romantic partner. But we make it work... and that is love, for us, but it is okay if you do not want that. It is okay if you do not ever want that. Some people do not." His eyes flicked to the teen, swaying gently to keep Ivy asleep, "Teachers and other adults tend to by caught up on those things because we have such a picture of what it means to be a teenager, what 'normal' teenagers should and should not be doing and it can be difficult to remember not everyone fits that same mold. When Cooger and I were growing up, I was adamant that love was not real, that I would never get married, all those things, all while slowly falling in love with Daizi... Or, slowly realizing it, I am not sure, now, I was ever not in love with her, and Cooger said he expected to get married some day, but of course he did not. And we were both spoken to the same way about it because adults are expected to engage teenagers, but if they do not know us well enough to speak to us like individuals, they default to 'are you dating anyone?' 'how is school?' and 'do you play any sports' if you look athletic but 'do you play video games?' if you do not."
He shrugged his broad shoulders, "There is no right way to be, most people do not understand that."