"Of course there are," He nodded, moving a piece that put Alec back into check, and telling him so, "Parenting does not get easier after infancy, there are only different challenges. Or so I have been told, I have only seen teenagers and babies. Baby." Again he looked down at Ivy, and now bent to kiss her forehead, smiling just slightly at the way she squirmed when he did.
She snorted and pulled a loosely knit blanket over her lap, not because she was cold but because it was cozy, "First of all, I don't think there has ever been a child of any age or situation who has not been high stress, high maintenance, and who has not interfered with every aspect of their parents' lives. You two are not the cause of as much trouble as you think." After allowing that declaration to sink in, she sat back, picking up a pillow to hold in her lap, because after eight months of pregnancy and another twelve weeks of having an infant, she didn't know what to do with her hands. She didn't have a belly to rest them on anymore, and since Dark was holding Ivy, her hands weren't occupied with supporting an infant, either. Xander didn't like to be touched, which only left hugging a pillow to herself, "I also just have wanted a big family. I haven't always, for a long time Dark and I were practically anti-natalists, then after the first time, we thought maybe one. It wasn't until we lost the second that I realized I wanted children, plural. And I was left believing for a long, long time it would never happen. But then you two came, and I had been waiting." She reached behind her to touch the wall, "We built this house for children and possibly grandchildren and extended families, and so we had so many rooms stand empty for so long. It felt like it was full the absence of ghosts. Except for what we have in the garden." She hugged the pillow more tightly, "If it makes you feel better, Ivy popped in unexpectedly, too. We can't even argue she gave us time to plan, because she came early. But I'm okay with that, you know? All three of you came into my life when the cosmic timing was right, and that's a comforting thought."