pandakatiefominz
Wraith
Dark inhaled, drumming his thumbs on the steering wheel, "That is a difficult question. You cannot know at first, not when you first meet someone. But I think, over time, you begin to notice how they respond if you are in disagreements, how willing they are to compromise, and how much they care about your point of view. Someone who is willing to make it work long term will be respectful even when you disagree, compromise, and really listen. And of course there are times when compromise is not necessary, because sometimes a person really does just need to give in, depending on the situation. If Daizi really wants to get ice cream but I want to go home, often I will just go and get ice cream with her. A compromise could be we go home and find a dessert there, but it is not worth planning that out when I can make her happy, but someone willing to put in the work is also willing to make sacrifices, so long as those sacrifices are equitable and it is not one person making all of them."