pandakatiefominz
Wraith
"It is not too much to ask. Have you told him how the way he talks about leaving makes you feel, as his friend? If he is not used to having those sorts of relationships, he may not realize how he is coming across, and people sometimes respond better to being told how they are making someone feel than they do to being told, even if they are being told kindly, how they should try being different." Dark told him but then felt it necessary to warn him, "Sometimes people who have gone through difficulty hold onto one thing which keeps them going, and they are working so hard just to keep their head above water, it can be difficult for them to think on anything other than that one thing. I would not be surprised if you had something you struggled to let go of. My thing was just..." He furrowed his eyebrows, and shook his head, "It does not matter what it was. My point is, he may not realize what he is doing or how it is hurting you."
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"I don't know what 'pollyanna' is," Daizi admitted, "but do you think, maybe, his vibrant positivity is his version of being protective? And that he feels he is helping you because from his perspective, his positivity is doing something, even if maybe sometimes it's difficult on him to keep it up?"
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"I don't know what 'pollyanna' is," Daizi admitted, "but do you think, maybe, his vibrant positivity is his version of being protective? And that he feels he is helping you because from his perspective, his positivity is doing something, even if maybe sometimes it's difficult on him to keep it up?"